Many times I am excited about it. To do it the right way. Through it, become one with the one I love. The one who loves me, The one God approves for me. But other times, I cannot help but ponder. Ponder about how deep it is. The depth of the things exchanged during its course, Intercourse! It is way older than I am, It is as old as the first man that ever existed, It is thousands of years older than I am, It only makes sense that I give myself to really understand it. You may argue that it is an expression of Love. But love is patient, holds no record of wrongs, Love never fails, neither does it break up - I Corinthians 13:4-7 So why did the love you say you tried to express, fail?! Perhaps it wasn’t love after all! Let us go to the very beginning, how it all started. The man leaves his parents & is joined to his wife. And the two become united into one - Genesis 2:24, II Corinthians 6:16 Sex is the place where two spirits come together, To become one flesh. This explains why my parents have began to look the same, After over 20 years of doing it. Every single time they did it, they became one. Leaving bits and pieces of themselves inside each other, And at the same time forming such strong coalescence. Both Spiritually & Physically. Every single time! It was created by God for two souls, two bodies - man and woman to experience a greater depth of oneness. oneness in SPIRIT Not to be separated by anything or anyone but God- Matthew 19:6, Mark 10:8 Now that we see clearly God's plan and purpose for sex. Why has the devil tried so hard to reverse and perverse it? Have you thought about it? The devil gets it Every time you have sex outside of God's plan You fragment your spirit, soul & body. You leave bits and pieces of yourself with one, you should have no business with. And you also carry bags and baggages of one you had no business carrying it for. He knows that the chances of running far and achieving more will be so slim. When you are fractionated into pieces with individuals you had sex with. And more so when you carry around so many fractionated pieces of individuals. God was not sleeping when He designed sex for only people in marriage in His presence. Sex is so spiritual as well as it utilizes our physical bodies And God cares so much about our physical & spiritual wellbeing- I Corinthians 6:12-20 Therefore, He wants us to do it right! In a wholesome manner, In ways that allows our spirit, body & soul to thrive. Every single human on earth is controlled by the kind of spirit inside of him or her. Every time you have sex with a human, bits & pieces of spirits are exchanged. Thinking about it right now just gives me a picture of a circus Bodies with so many kinds of spirits mingling and struggling to take form struggling to really understand what kind of coalescence to form. Before you engage in something as intimate Something with so much depth as sex Can you do me a favor? Give it a long thought Is it really worth it? Is this the right way? Does this person deserve to have such huge access into the depths & core of my spirit & soul? Can I really afford to fragment my soul right now? Can I really afford to give bits and parts of me to this human? What kind of spirit am I going to be joined with once I am done? Will the spirit inside of me be polluted with a foreign spirit? Ultimately, will God smile at me from heaven? If God came for me in that moment, will I be able to access heaven? As you think about these things before doing it Remember God designed sex He is the creator of sex - I Corinthians 6:13 God created it for His children - male & female Individually filled with His spirit To come together To exchange the dimensions of the spirit of God in them To become one To run the Christian race faster To accomplish all that He has planned for them To accomplish His plans for the human race Through His children who do it right Now! Do you stand with me to do it right? If you have been doing it wrong, A clean slate is available Through His mercy Ask Him for it And decide to do it right Decide to stand with me to do it right May God help us all as we stand to do it right In Jesus name. Amen.